I do not understand his logic when it comes to mornings. He works an earlier shift, from 6:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m., but he is not a morning person. When he wakes up, he wakes me up to ask me to help get him ready for work. I guess I should feel some prode that my man wants my help, but to me I feel like a mother to another child that I need to get ready for school.
I get clean socks and underwear for him, I also have to prep a luch for him, and if I'm in the general vicinity of the coffeemaker, he asks if I can start his coffee too!!! The most frustrating part of making his coffee for him is that we have a Keurig so all he has to do is put in a k-cup and press a button!!! To him, he feels that I should just be waking up and starting my day when he wakes up, but my day starts later than his, I'm usually waking up at 8:00 a.m., and I'm going to bed around 11:00 p.m.
I also am frustrated by his bad attitude that he seems to have each morning. He wakes up and there's always something to be complaining about...... Dirty dishes, laundry, cleaning and tidying in general. It puts me in a bad mood, then he complains about me being in a bad mood!!! Never going to win with him around in the mornings. It feels so frustrating, then it starts to hurt.
I wake up so I can help him, I don't wake up to start arguing with him. How do I deal with his attifue and not make him more upset?
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